NOTE - The youth's names have been changed and images withheld for their privacy and protection because they are still in foster care awaiting permanence. Through their stories, though, their identities and personalities are as vivid as their futures are bright.

I’m Brian.  I’m 13 years old and in the 6th grade.  During my free time I enjoy playing sports.  I also like to listen to country music.  When I graduate from high school I want to be a welder.

I don’t know why I came into foster care, whether it was because of abuse or neglect, but if I had to describe it, I would say it’s been a good experience.  What has made foster care a good experience is the family I live with now.  I’ve been in 4 foster homes total.  But if I needed help, I could go to my Mom and Dad [foster parents].  My life is better because of the people I’m with and going to church.  My life just feels better.

I need braces to fix my teeth, to straighten them out.  It’s important to get them fixed so my teeth will be healthy.

June 2024 - Deband Day

Jenny - Brian’s Adoptive Mother

This experience has been a blessing in many ways. Obviously, the financial assistance with the orthodontic treatment was a huge benefit for our family, but the greater benefit came with the partnership and support as we guide our son to grow and mature by caring for himself and his body. Many children come through the foster system will grasp for control and autonomy. They have lost a sense of control over many basic areas of life- their home, school, family relationships. Some children react by resisting basic self-care. Having support to continue guiding our son in good hygiene practices helped our son grow in confidence and health. We are grateful to continue our relationship with Mrs. Lacy who has been a part of our son’s foster journey from the very beginning.